The Tale of the Rohingyar Boat People

I read the Robinson Crusoe authored by the late Daniel Defoe years ago; it journaled the life of a shipwrecked man stranded on an island with no inhabitants.  There he painstakingly learned how to kindle a fire, hunt for food, and make a house out of a cave, among other things.  He learned how to survive on his own, fighting his way through cannibals and captives and mutineers.  In the end, he was “found” after 28 long years, and brought back to the shores of England.

Now that is his story.

It’s a sad, sad, really sad world out there. Gloom is monopolizing its dirty little antics, shadowing all the horrifying terror. To hear of so much pain, so much suffering breathing humans are enduring day by day – it’s quite upsetting.  I opened up the newspapers today to find the first two pages complete with news about the incredibly devastating plight of a large group of Myanmar migrants stranded on a boat with absolutely no food and no water.  Oh god, how have they been able to survive so long onboard?  Ten of them have already died; the rest are starving to death with nothing appropriate for life.  Imagine having to rely solely on survival instincts when every other instinct has worn out itself.  This can become pressing, which I have no doubt already begun circling about among the migrants.

The Rohingyar migrants. (Image credits to BBC News)

The distraught, anguished faces of the children and men and women on the boat speak of their intolerable desperation. No place to go, no food, no water.  To think that these are the first of the basic psychological needs that must be inherently met. Without these basic building blocks, stress sets in, first mentally, and then physically.  Because things that used to fall within their internal locus of control starts to slip away from their grasp – fast.  Depression caves in. Worst still, when one sees their loved ones dying of ill health and whatever else.

I agree with Marina Mahathir that we need to head out to the Andaman seas and provide urgent aid.  Malaysia has more than enough resources to provide for the needy.  Furthermore, time is running out – it is already night and soon a new day will dawn.  Let there be no hate, no prejudice, no questioning as to who where, and how they belong.  They are simply humans like us.  Humans who have the right to live, and should be treated accordingly.

There lies a verse in the Scriptures: “Do unto thy neighbors as thy would do unto thyself.”  Probably putting ourselves in their shoes might help.  Being stuck in a floating boat is not the same as being stuck in a fertile island – this is real life, not a movie.  It is more of a matter of life and death.  It is not their fault that they chose to leave their land in the first place.  To have wanted to leave the country in hopes of a better future for one’s family, only to have them shattered because of ill-knowledge, is the most unfortunate thing that could happen to a perfectly okay human being.

I fear what will happen to the younger Myanmar generation.  I fear if the boat is left abandoned, and everyone onboard dies of sickness and hunger.  I fear also, if the ship is left abandoned, and the migrants find their way out to land – and tear upon every other person they see, because they have developed a resilience over torture and have turned their back against Mankind who failed to help them.  I fear for the plight of the migrants as they continue to live ahead with their lives, and yet because of the experience develop PTSD or any other form of psychological disease.  I fear also for the safety of everyone else, that they may become indirect victims of this traumatizing condition.

Because they are only human.

A silent prayer passes my lips for their rescue.

Alicia Ai Leng

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Free Roads

Today is my first ever test for Skills and Strategies class.

So I hopped off my make-shift bed in the morning as early as 5.30AM today, and got myself prepared to go… to class. I walked out of the flat, crossed the empty road, and went through the Forbidden Tunnel.  It’s kind of dark, and my mother doesn’t like me to walk there.  But where I live, it’s a little hard to get a public transport.  And I live really far – to go to classes, I have to take a bus (or walk), hop on a train, and then take another bus before reaching the institutional grounds.  I have to beat the traffic and whatever comes along the way and reach my destination by  8.30AM.  Today is important because I can’t be late.

It’s not usually jam in the sleepy village of Kajang, so by bus I reach in less than ten minutes.  But if I walk I would have to take half an hour.  Luckily though I missed a bus, it didn’t take long for the next one to come.  I missed a train also, and had to go to the ATM to cash out a little money because I have no idea where the money I took out yesterday went, and I don’t have the time to look around for it.  By the time I was at the ticketing counter, there were ten more minutes to the next train. With a silent prayer, I managed to get a ticket before the train came.  To get to the train that goes to the area I wanted to stop at was at the other side of the track, so I crossed over – just in time to sit for a little while before it came.

Choo-choo-chooing to an steady halt, I hopped on the old train and was pleasantly surprised to find a sit for myself.  Usually, there aren’t any seats as the train is already packed with people going to Kuala Lumpur to work or study.  But today is special.

I reached the Klang Valley in about half an hour, and rushed to the bus stop at the other side of the wide, wide road.  Many buses pass by that stop; some go to Klang (which isn’t the same as the Klang Valley), some go to Puchong, while others go to Damansara.  There are also many places carrying the “Damansara” name, eg. Mutiara Damansara, Damansara Uptown, Damansara Perdana, and bla, bla, bla….  Too many.

I checked the screen for the time of arrival for the next bus that goes to Subang Jaya.  It’s coming in 5 minutes.  I felt delighted, but at the same time prayed that I would be on time for class because today is Test Day!  Besides it has been the norm for me to be stuck in a jam from the Klang Valley to Subang at this time or later.  

I studied what was in my notes and the lecture hand-outs very passively, trying to instill in my brain the concepts and definitions of whatever was going to be on for the test later. 

When the bus came, I readily boarded it.  I was feeling quite sleepy at the time, which is how I always felt after waking up so early and traveling right away.  I tried sleeping for awhile, all the time maintaining alert and trying to take control of my subconcious so it won’t dare to take control of me.  It wasn’t an easy thing to do; several times the subconcious overtook my concious and I was forced to drift away into slumber.  Just look what happened last night – I mean this morning?

I took time off to look up out of the window to give my eyes – and my brains – break from all the type.  It was drowning me into the jargon of complexity.  All of them.

And guess what.  The roads are free!  There’s almost no traffic, and the bus moved forward at a steady pace.  No obstructions in front and beyond. 

That is what got me so excited for the day.  I usually am not because of all the haggling I have to go through.  (Plus the fact that I have been late for many of my classes.  It’s not that I want to boast about my lateness, or I feel good about it.  It’s not a great thing, so I don’t encourage it.)

At class, I did the test, and it was easy, so I guess it is ok. 

Have you ever thought of your life as a free road?

 

The Best Form of Self-Motivation

A motivational tip.

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If you are looking for the best, most popular, most advanced form of self-motivation, look no further.

The answer comes from the inside of you.

What goes on in your head has the ability to change your world.  I do realize that this sentence has been paraphrased.  For a long time, I was pondering over what that meant.  This is the list of questions I went through over and over before finalizing to one answer.

#1.  Does your mind change the way you think, or does the way you think change your mind?

#2.  Do you mold the world according to your perceptions, or do your perceptions mold the world?

#3.  Can the world change without you having to change your perceptions, or do you have to change your perceptions in order to change the world?

I have had more than enough suffering from experimenting out myself to see the…

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The Best Form of Self-Motivation

If you are looking for the best, most popular, most advanced form of self-motivation, look no further.

The answer comes from the inside of you.

What goes on in your head has the ability to change your world.  I do realize that this sentence has been paraphrased.  For a long time, I was pondering over what that meant.  This is the list of questions I went through over and over before finalizing to one answer.

#1.  Does your mind change the way you think, or does the way you think change your mind?

#2.  Do you mold the world according to your perceptions, or do your perceptions mold the world?

#3.  Can the world change without you having to change your perceptions, or do you have to change your perceptions in order to change the world?

I have had more than enough suffering from experimenting out myself to see the outcomes of the questions I posted.  It’s been a dreary long two-years, and almost unimaginable.  I can tell you, the effects are disastrously adverse.

So now.  Switch off your mobile phone, laptop, i-Pad, notebook, radio, television, and whatever form of media you’ll surely find.  You have to – i mean, you must – spend a little time for yourself.  Even if it were for only a few minutes.  You badly need quiet time, away from the hassles that perturb your inner calmness everyday.

Everything comes from within you.  Because no matter how easy or how hard anyone tells you to do something, you are NOT going to do it until you WANT to do it.

Identify with your thoughts.  Are they positive or negative? 

Positive thoughts about anyone – yourself, your friends, your parents, your pets – are always good to hear, good to feel , and good to embrace. Negative thoughts, on the other hand, act like some sort of firing bullets that come crashing down on you.  Therefore, begin by building positive thoughts about yourself, first.  You are the subject of more importance here as the transformation comes from you.

When you think love, you will surely feel love.  When you think smart, you will surely act smart.  When you think pretty, you will do your best to make yourself presentable in front of anyone you know off.

Just take a moment to change your thoughts to positive ones.  Of course, you need to identify the negative ones first.

As for me, I am actually going though a motivational book by Steve Chandler.  I have ideas already how to keep myself brimming with positive energy, all thanks to that book and some other materials. 

Motivating yourself is only a choice you have to make.  That choice is the very first step that will lead to amazing results to get you through, from finding the right book or quote to keep yourself up to helping others to keep themselves motivated.

Oh, yeah, I had actually written another article on a notebook, but today when I arrived at college, I only realized that I had left that book in the house.  So I came up wit this one instead, just to keep you entertained. =D

Release

    I’ve been thinking too much for a long time. Thinking about the past, the present and the future. How? Theorizing on how the past has made me who I am today. Wondering how the present is going to affect my future. And trying to figure out the best way to act in the present so it will influence my future the right way.

It’s not easy. It’s not funny, too. It’s been a harrowing experience, what with a crazy family reaching the threshold of cuckoo-ness. When you look at it, life sometimes doesn’t mean anything at all. It’s empty. You keep on doing the same thing over and over again, but you simply fall back in the same round-about.

It’s time that I let go. It’s time that I leave all the emptiness behind and fill my life with something else. Yes, people say psychologists are weird; after all they think about how people’s thoughts, cultural and familial influence, as well as social background affect them as a whole. So it’s not easy. My favorite psychologist is Sigmund Freud, the “sexy” psychologist. He has bizarre explanations for many subjects. But I don’t blame him. He’s not always wrong, but he’s not always right either. He may sound like a perv who has credit for whatever he says. As long as he finds a way to relieve all his tensions.

I’m going back to meditation once more. I’m going to hit the clubs and start swinging again. And I’m going to be not afraid of showing who I am. Because doing that sets my mind free.

 

Release

Image          I’ve been thinking too much for a long time. Thinking about the past, the present and the future. How? Theorizing on how the past has made me who I am today. Wondering how the present is going to affect my future. And trying to figure out the best way to act in the present so it will influence my future the right way.

It’s not easy. It’s not funny, too. It’s been a harrowing experience, what with a crazy family reaching the threshold of cuckoo-ness. When you look at it, life sometimes doesn’t mean anything at all. It’s empty. You keep on doing the same thing over and over again, but you simply fall back in the same round-about.

It’s time that I let go. It’s time that I leave all the emptiness behind and fill my life with something else. Yes, people say psychologists are weird; after all they think about how people’s thoughts, cultural and familial influence, as well as social background affect them as a whole. So it’s not easy. My favorite psychologist is Sigmund Freud, the “sexy” psychologist. He has bizarre explanations for many subjects. But I don’t blame him. He’s not always wrong, but he’s not always right either. He may sound like a perv who has credit for whatever he says. As long as he finds a way to relieve all his tensions.

I’m going back to meditation once more. I’m going to hit the clubs and start swinging again. And I’m going to be not afraid of showing who I am. Because doing that sets my mind free.

Discovering Your Inner Voice

“When the moon takes the place of the sun, and the night sky is filled with a million stars, then we shall meet again.” Those words rang at the back of my head as I stared at the blank sheet of paper in front of me. Aargh! I said the same words when I was with my boyfriend the last time we had met. That was almost five years ago. Why did they bounce back to me just as I was composing a song?
Several things have changed in the last five years. I was struggling to be a writer back then. I was searching for my inner voice. I was learning how to evoke persuasive feelings through the ink of the pen. I was trying to make things work – for myself, and for my family. Yet, here I am now, living the life of an aspiring writer and seeking to change the world for the better! Ah, the pen is a mighty sword indeed.

I managed to complete my prose after some time.
“When the moon takes the place of the sun
I will be standing on higher stage
I will show the world the things they have done
I’ll reveal a brighter image
Unlike the one previously shun.

“When the night sky is filled with a million stars
I will run my way to you
I will throw away my old mask
I’ll make sure I make it through
Then we shall meet again.”

It looks like a song. Well, that’s just me.
In every single one of us, we have our own unique substance. It could be a skill, an ability, an attitude, or a personality. It could be our dreams. We just need to spend some time – quiet time – to find it. Once we discover it, we need to pin it right there and then, before we lose it. From there, we develop it slowly and allow it to grow larger and larger. As that happens, we set up checkpoints so that we know where we are.

It’s just make makes us stand out. It’s what makes us sui generis.